Its ok !

Anger, jealousy and curse are some things which really makes a person loser. Do you agree?

Lets have a imagination on a short story. Its a story on a monsoon and just few hours ago there was a huge rain and as rain stop you got the news that some of your relatives are visiting to you.  You ar

e on a bus park on the waiting of your relatives. As a bus arrives the a incident happen to you which is really terrific. A poor man with the old ragged cloth just try to come out from bus but unfortunately he fall down on you, As a result you fall down on floor where there was some water stored. You smashed the water and you get yourself dirty.

(If you don't understand the matter kindly read the story once again.)

Now think, What you will do? As a human nature either you will shout on him. If possible you might slap him or make him insult as you feel chill to do. Obviously you are in your locality and you will do everything what you can do. Since he is culprit and he will stay tolerating what ever action you will take. You can show your complete power being a local person right?

Just Imagine even in this condition if you will stand and calmly you will tell its OK and forgive him. You will take no action on him. What result you will get?  Do what ever your result will be same. Either you turn aggressive and take a strict action or stay calm and take no action. Your cloth will not be cleaned either. 

Just imagine i am the person who is new visitor their  and i had seen both scenarios. Just you think on the first scenario if i had observed i will make a mind set up that you are aggressive. Million times you try to prove in front of me that you are calm. I cant believe on you. Your character is already drawn something else for me. On  second scenario you are Calm to me. Even you are angry then also i will feel you are calm person. 

Remember friends. When ever you are in the problem you try to become second person. Its really hard to be but the result what first person will gets, second person always gets better than first. We should try to be second person because what we are getting today it is the result what we had done yesterday and what we will do today result will come tomorrow. There is no any examination that you will write today and today you will get result and no any plant that you will seed today and fruit today.

Just stand in my place and think if i am wrong just comment me. I will evaluate myself in your position.